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Twineball · 12-10-2007, 03:29 PM

You can definitely have the kids be somewhat involved without introducing situations that will cause bonding between the child and the other adult. I think as long as the parent is up front with the child, explaining as best as they can what the situation is, and is very careful that the child not become too attached, it can be worked out.

It takes a lot of work, but that's part of having a child, I think. And I can't stress enough that the child's welfare is the most important factor in this situation.

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Twineball Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 20	Re: How Soon Should Kids Be Involved? You can definitely have the kids be somewhat involved without introducing situations that will cause bonding between the child and the other adult. I think as long as the parent is up front with the child, explaining as best as they can what the situation is, and is very careful that the child not become too attached, it can be worked out. It takes a lot of work, but that's part of having a child, I think. And I can't stress enough that the child's welfare is the most important factor in this situation.