greenbaglady

I get the feeling that your relationship is solid. It might feel rocky sometimes sathi but from your message I get the feeling that your husband deep down does have a lot of respect for you and cares very much about you, he likes to take care of you and make sure your safe and secure. I think that he uses the D word just in anger and frustration its just a threat--if he really meant it then he'd have done it by now and he would have a good reason for it, obviously he hasn't. So don't get down on yourself when he says that--try to just let it roll off your back and not listen to that.
The bit about the escorts tho, could it be that he's bored? Is there time in your relationship to be intimate with him? Maybe that's all he needs is reassurance that you're interested in him. Could your school work be getting in the way and hes finding ways to get your attention? I mean dont take that as stop doing your college work but is there a way that after your done with class or homework you can cuddle on the couch and watch a dvd with him? or go out for a meal once a week to rekindle things?
I really do wish you all the best.