 Re: Why I doubt it's going to work out.
I've been thinking along similar lines, mwil.
Right now it feels tenuous because once again, it feels like he's "gotten away" with acting like a jerk.
No resolution. I tried showing with my actions, not words.
Now we're "back to normal." Sort of.
But i dont actually KNOW what he feels like.
BECAUSE HE WON'T TALK TO ME ABOUT IT.
So.....
I'm deciding not to open up discussion, because he'll shut down if I do.
And just waiting for the next "test."---which is what I call it, because my response makes a difference.
Conrad--your point that right now there's relief at the lack of arguing--I think that's where we are.
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