Originally Posted by magnoliagal
This guy is feeling inferior because he can't give his lady multiple O's. He's competing with likely a vibe. How fair is that? No man is battery operated. Also he wants to pleasure her but she was dumb enough to imply he wasn't enough maybe?? Now it's haunting him. Then he comes here and the women basically validate it. So yes it bothers me.
Iím not feeling inferior, and Iím not competing against a vibe. She didnít use the vibe for over a month now, which Iím glad, with what Iíve read here on the effects of that. In my book, masturbation is a must for men and women, there are so many benefits, physically, mentally, and it helps to you understand your body better, how it reacts to certain things. That way, your better equipped to please someone else.
Iím just trying to understand why my wife doesnít want to come more than once with me. I would love to keep going. However, she tells me that she likes when we come together. And while reading the post, everyoneís comments, this brings other questions.
I would love if my wife would open up on her sexual life, meaning that she feels comfortable 100% talking of all aspects. We could grow faster together. Sheís not comfortable talking about masturbation, and when we have intercourse, I donít think sheís letting herself go 100%.