| | Re: Seeking help
Hey Pinky---YOU NEED TO GO TO IC---you, yourself---
You need to cool it with the alcohol---and if you are out on your own, at business meetings---you either stay in the company of a mixed crowd, or you go back to your room after dinner, AND STAY THERE
You got in trouble, cuz you were manipulated, by a womanizer---obviously you were to naive, and immature to handle it
You also need to tell his wife, what he is doing---she is entitled to make an informed decision about how to spend the rest of her life---also contacting her, may put a stop to his womanizing activities, and any further attempts to contact you---cuz I imagine if your H., did find out he was still in contact with you---everything is likely to blow up in your face!!!!!
Aside from that just concentrate on your mge
You should know that your H, may hit various stages in his processing of what you have done to him---and in the future if he does come at you, due to his sub--conscious---remember you caused this all to happen, so don't react against your H., try to help him thru his pain
You will be fine if you just do the proper things to take care of yourself