I copied this about a year ago - I thought it was SO GOOD & threw it in 2 of my relationship books.
I need so much of
EROS in my marraige or I would get bored. Just who I am. I feel I have experienced all of these. I was on the highs of
Epithumia for about 8 months when I had my mid life Crisis, very strong desires overtaking my mind- I focused them all on my husband, chasing him all over the place. It should have been more of a youthful thing for me, but it wasn't. Thankfully, he liked it!
My husband is better at
Agape than me, a most loving man no matter what, he has it mastered. If I didnt have some
Eros in there, I am afraid my
Agape may fall by the wayside.
I feel we have ALWAYS had
Storge &
Phileo since before we married to the present, always consistent, always there, never questioned ever.