Originally Posted by ItsOnlyMe
I started having trouble communicating with her ,on an intimate level. There are some childhood issues there and I wont go into that.
All this stemming from my inability to communicate, 90% of the time it was about sex, or the lack of it.
I feel you're leaving out the information that is most important.
As for timing. Christmas is the worst possible time to try to make anything happen in a hurry. Most families are in a terrible state of stress at this time of year. And this year is arguably worse than most.
Calm down, take a deep breath, and keep writing. You can get through this. We are your sounding board.