Re: run or stay?
It sounds like you are confused in your post.
Is the real issue you just don't want to settle down because you'd have to give up drinking & nice clothes or because there is something about him that gives you red flags?
At the heart of the matter is you have to do what is right for you right now otherwise if you marry him just to keep him you will always hold it against him. Tell him gentle that the two of you want different things and let him go find some girl that wants and deserves to get married to a guy that will treat her like a princess. It is unfair to do anything else.
draconis
|