| | Re: If a spouse crosses your boundary?
Unfortunately it is not apparent yet whether my husband would be so welcoming of guidelines.
He still hasn't responded, and I haven't tried to call him. It is getting close to the time when he would usually leave family to go and meet friends, and I have no idea what he is planning to do. I have no idea how to respond if he comes home tonight and I find out he has been out drinking with friends, because I know I'll instantly be wondering, what he has been doing.
Do I play it cool? Do I talk to him? Do I wait to see what he does? What if he's all like, so what, I can do what I want? Or says to deal with it?