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Old 05-07-2011, 04:54 PM   #4 (permalink)
magnoliagal
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Default Re: Bullied into emotional affair? Our story

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How can Jay convince Lori that he never felt more then a friendship with Millie?
He can't because it's not true. Actions speak louder than words. He cheated no matter how he wants to paint it.

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How can he live with himself?
Good question and I don't know. I couldn't if I did that to my spouse.

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How can Lori get over the pain?
No idea. I'm not Lori.

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Was it really an emotional affair if Jay never wanted Millie and his feelings never went beyond platonic?
Yes because he got off on the praise, spent time with her alone when he knew full well what her intentions were.

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Was he lying to himself?
Yes.

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Could he really deal with seeing her anger and pain for the years that it would take her to move on?
Only Jay can answer.

And ditto on the nobody was bullied into an affair. Happened because he allowed it to happen.
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