Re: If a spouse crosses your boundary?
Hey WW----Its like this---your H., cheated plain and simple---he DOESN'T get to get mad---he doesn't get to anything!!!!!
He needs to be happy as he*l---you didn't see an atty, and put D. on the table, and HE NEEDS TO KNOW IT
At this point in time, this is the way it needs to be---you say jump--he says how high
You have to get very hard about this---otherwise he will just defy, and disrespect you----If he thinks you are soft on this---he will cheat again knowing he can get away with it
Believe me he doesn't want D---so he will not give you any trouble if you just get in his face and back him down---I promise you he will roll over, you just need to be the boss
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