| | Re: Help, my Marriage is Crumbling
Found something out last night. From her former room mate.
She calls and tells her, lifes too short to not have fun, and lifes to short to not be happy, is what she's saying. She said she wasnt having fun anymore and ppl are dieing all around her and she is now starting to get older herself (37). She didnt say that to me, but to my sister, her old room mate. That seeing her Grandmother laying there dieing made her realize this.
Im not the one that stopped wanting to go out, we used to go out alot, on weekends we'd go to bars with live music, and little by little she seemed to loose interest in that and we pretty much settled in to dinner at a nice resteraunt once a week and then home, becuase she was tired. She didnt want to see the movies i wanted to see and I pretty much did likewise.
This all has something to do with her grandmother dieing and i guess Im along for the ride come what may. The come what may part is whats eating away at me at 5am.