Originally Posted by themrs
I don't expect him to fail. Quite the opposite. I didn't expect him to forget as much as he did.
I don't think he's consciously testing me, but it's still a test for me. I have to keep being supportive and trusting even though every iota of my being wants to control. So far so good.
I don't believe that anybody actively chooses to be a knucklehead. Well ... most don't.
Have these issues always been in play, or were they cultivated as a result of your relationship dynamic?
Good for you by the way. I know you have been working this angle for some time, no?