| | Re: Is it all my fault?
Sometimes I wish I could talk to the wife. *sigh*
Do what the previous posters say.
Also, since your wife has never been horny there could be a component that won't be easily changed. It may be her personality or religious guilt or past abuse or hormones. You just never know.
There are things she can do to help. She needs to start thinking about sex-this will be an effort for her I am sure! She needs to start masturbating-get herself a fun toy because she might be squimish about touching herself down there. She needs to start fantasizing.
Play with her. Make it fun! Chase her, tease, flirt, pounce, wrestle, maul...If you can get her giggling or laughing you are halfway there.
But, yeah, the fact she was never all that into it means this might be a deeper issue that might take a docor or counselor to get past.