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Gabriel · 05-10-2011, 04:03 PM

Anthony, let me put it to you this way. What if SHE wants the goodbye to put it all away for good? As far as I know he is not requesting the goodbye. Telling him to get lost doesn't apply.

There are only two possibilities

1) she is telling me the truth here
2) she will see/talk him again after, no matter what she says

It goes back the trust/consequence. If #1 happens it was the best thing to let her have it. She has a better chance of moving forward, and I show I am trusting her in attempt to repair.

If #2 happens, then I end it the marriage.

Yes, wondering what was said will be tough. This is the part that gives me the most pause about it.

05-10-2011, 04:03 PM	#15 (permalink)
Gabriel Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 1,657	Re: Wife had EA only, but I'm having trouble Anthony, let me put it to you this way. What if SHE wants the goodbye to put it all away for good? As far as I know he is not requesting the goodbye. Telling him to get lost doesn't apply. There are only two possibilities 1) she is telling me the truth here 2) she will see/talk him again after, no matter what she says It goes back the trust/consequence. If #1 happens it was the best thing to let her have it. She has a better chance of moving forward, and I show I am trusting her in attempt to repair. If #2 happens, then I end it the marriage. Yes, wondering what was said will be tough. This is the part that gives me the most pause about it.