draconis

Well all his verbal attacks have left you feeling weak which is understandable really. But stop think of what he did say or do and think about yourself. Are you comfortable being where you are. If you are the great, If not then what would make you feel better.

Let's face it you could have shot back at your hubby too (with the porn) unless he is a foot long, and/or has ripped abs. But the issue lies in the real world and not perfect actors for the part.

I have been battling weight for the last two years myself. After getting to 215 last september I made the choice to lose weight and tone up. I went down to 175 before calling it okay last year but rebounded to 187 by august of this year. Two months ago I decide I wanted to loss more weight again this year so I have been on a harsh diet and working out the best I can. I am proud to say I am back down to 175 but I want to be at 160 by the summer and in much better shape.

But those are my goal and you have to decide if you are comfortable with who you are. If you want to loss weight or tone up talk to our doctor and join a gym. Maybe we can start a weight loss support thread here?!?

Also if it is because you are self confident then maybe have a few talks with a therapist down the road. Some gyms have personal trainers as a part of the gym for free that can encourage you as well.

Just remember that you are a wonderful person and you can be what you want to be. I undersand fighting weight loss because I have a metabolic disorder which makes it hard on me.

If you need we can be weight loss buddies! Offering tips and encouragement.

So what would make YOU feel better?

draconis