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Old 12-18-2007, 09:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
Chris H.
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Default Re: Dreams about women who are not my wife!

I think Draconis is pretty close here. I know a psychoanalyst that might say "dreams are our subconscious desires or wish fulfillment."

In your post you pretty staunchly deny your desire to cheat, which is probably the way you deal with this uncomfortable desire. When we cope like that, sometimes our desires will come out in our dreams.

It's ok though, it doesn't mean that you will ever cheat, it could just be that you have a little too much denial going on. The fact that you experience the guilt upon waking is a healthy reaction for your relationship. I think you're pretty safe.
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