Re: can you help me save my marriage
i am backkkkkk.... hahahaha well lets just say i am a new person and the wife is still herself. she has done everything from cut me off from my step son to telling her lawyer i am stalking her. she is up to a pint a night now and getting worse. my daughter has grow really close to me in the last two months and i think now even though she is 5 she is seeing things for what they are. i would still like to push for full custody but i have no way of proving her drinking beause she does it behind closed doors. i don tknow if i mentioned that she was attending school but she finished it up only to fail the state boards. she has got her car repoed and is falling hard and fast. i cannot call the house to speak to my little one without first getting the yelled at treatment. on my nightly visitation she goes as far as to only pack a couple things so she can have an excuse to bring more or get me to come get more. mainly doing things just to make me mad. trouble is i dont get mad anymore, i just smile! i pay child support but i had to go buy winter clothes and coats for haily because she wouldnt. she has made the comment several times that the little bit of money i give her doesnt help out much! i just tell her, hey i give what i was told to give by the courts and besides that isnt to help you it for haily. oh and the dude she was seeing has run off also. only took hiim 1.5 months to figure out she was nuts. wonder why it took me 6 years? i had to threaten to take her to court on thanksgiving day becuase she wouldnt let me see or have a phone conversation. by rights i was supposed to get her all day and the whole vacation and only ended up getting her for three hours because of my work schedule. she has begged me to come home 2 times back in september but i told her i didnt know. so now she just uses the kids against me and tries to make my life a living hell. whats she doesnt understand is it was hell and there is nothing she can do now to make it any worse than it was with her. thanks to all who were there to help and i will keep "ya'll" posted!
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