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Affaircare · 05-12-2011, 03:41 PM

This is just my opinion. I don't think that crying in front of her will have any impact on her whatsoever, so if you're crying to trigger some sort of remorse in her--don't even bother.

On the other hand, if you are sincere and at the moment feel sad and tears come--then I say cry because it's what's in your heart, whether she is there or not. It is reality and it does no good to shield her from reality. But cry because you feel sorrown, not because you hope she feels something.

05-12-2011, 03:41 PM	#15 (permalink)
Affaircare Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 2,509	Re: Crying in time of emotional pain towards DS This is just my opinion. I don't think that crying in front of her will have any impact on her whatsoever, so if you're crying to trigger some sort of remorse in her--don't even bother. On the other hand, if you are sincere and at the moment feel sad and tears come--then I say cry because it's what's in your heart, whether she is there or not. It is reality and it does no good to shield her from reality. But cry because you feel sorrown, not because you hope she feels something. __________________ Helping couples recover and reconcile after an affair or keep their marriages affair-free at Affaircare. The 180 * Coping With Infidelity Newbies--Please read this!