 Re: The OW keeps mesaging my husband
What is his definition of snooping? Imo it only becomes snooping when you believe the other person is being secretive. Over time you will gain trust. Further, it would be in his interest to hide any contact he might have with ow to avoid going through this with you again. Given his reluctance to be proactive in shutting het down, there isn't really a good record on his part for restoring trust. It actually takes a lot more from his side to get where he claims to want to be.
How's that?
However, offering him a time when you will stop looking except if he starts behaving idly would be nice. 6 months?
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