cadence

Hi, Dracionis, I should have been more specific...when I said you cant compare your experience to a womans...I didnt mean because of any pain, pregnancy etc but rather because society treats men who are single parents diffenrenty than women who are...Im sorry to hear about your health problems.....I am amazed you manage only a few hours to run a house with all your pain...I am a migraine sufferer and With each of my pregnancies I suffered sever morning sickness (lasting to late afternoon for the entire pregnancy)...I know it took me absolutely forever to get what needs to be done finished...When Im home (ie weekends, hlidays)now I spend a minimum of six-eight hours in household/child related chores....when at work it is around 3 hours each for my husband and I a day... Anyway, it was mentioned in 'not feeling appreciated' that it wOuld be better to start a seprate thread on this topic with links to studies...so will do for anyone . interested