Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Need to talk to someone, and could use advice (long, sorry, please read)

JJG · 05-19-2011, 06:11 AM

My interpretation was that he is happy to be married as long as it is not difficult or involves work. Everything is is fine until a problem arises (even very small ones), then suddenly he doesnt know what he wants, or isnt sure the marriage will work out.

I know you said you are both young, so he cannot help it, but this is very immature behavior. He has a wife and child, he needs to grow up and start dealing with problems rather than giving up . . .

I agree with Tempertoo that you shouldnt not bring up serious relationship talks all the time as you do need to just enjoy eachother. Would you be prepared to try MC again but for longer than 2 mths?

I dont think it is fair on you that he brings up the D word everytime there is a bump in the road.

05-19-2011, 06:11 AM	#4 (permalink)
JJG Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: London, England Posts: 170	Re: Need to talk to someone, and could use advice (long, sorry, please read) My interpretation was that he is happy to be married as long as it is not difficult or involves work. Everything is is fine until a problem arises (even very small ones), then suddenly he doesnt know what he wants, or isnt sure the marriage will work out. I know you said you are both young, so he cannot help it, but this is very immature behavior. He has a wife and child, he needs to grow up and start dealing with problems rather than giving up . . . I agree with Tempertoo that you shouldnt not bring up serious relationship talks all the time as you do need to just enjoy eachother. Would you be prepared to try MC again but for longer than 2 mths? I dont think it is fair on you that he brings up the D word everytime there is a bump in the road.