| | Re: Hurtful- Husband refuses sex with me. Too late to fix?
I doubt these issues over control ever get resolved. Swept under the rug, ignored? Yes. But eliminated, no. Once a control freak and a boss-Nazi always one. After going through endless counselors the wife once blurted out that I needed to get permission from her to go to the bathroom. She wasn't making a joke. That's how the world looks to people like that. Oh they might be able to repress their urges for a while but eventually that old tyrant dictator will emerge again.