Originally Posted by sinnister
I agree. He seems like he's not ready for a family. Why do you continue to have sex with the guy? Having another child at this time would be a HUGE mistake.
Because I love him and enjoy having sex (especially with him!) I suppose are the two biggest reasons. We have very protected sex, so another child, although possible, is not likely at this time.
I agree that he appears to not be ready for a family. And that is why I am willing to wait for him (while still being married and living together, etc) to figure out whatever it is that he needs to figure out so that he can be 100% happy and content with this life and decision. I can't fathom the idea that my son and I will simply be "collateral damage" in my husband's escapades of dabbling here and there and figuring out if "this" (I talk about it as though it is a hobby - not a lifelong commitment!) is for him.