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Catherine602 · 05-22-2011, 07:34 PM

What he wants is to have a woman at home as an assured sex partner cook, maid and emotional support and to love him while he trolls for other women. His little plan is the dream of every male on the planet. . What he wants is male type sex and this will not appeal to you so he is not too worried tyat he will lose his convienient house frau and he is certain you will not want to cheat on him. If you did it probably would not concern him.

He really does not sound like marriage material. Has he cheated in all of his other relationships? He is quite clever, he wants to avoid the expense of divorce and seems to be warning you that he will cheat. What better way to avoid the financial risk of divorce by telling you his plans.

I think he is sure that you love him and are too weak or dependant financially to say no and let him know that when he wants someone else he will not have you. If you can not tell him that, you are in for a rough time. He had this planned, he knew he felt this way but hid it till he had you conered . Sounds like a deceptive user. The fact that you did not react by calling him on knowing this was his agenda before marriage and lying about his commitment to you in marriage. A woman with self respect would would have said she needed to reconsider staying married to a man who wants to cheat. Dont buy his stupid explanation he is insulting your intelligence with that explanation.

You sound as if you will agree to this because you don't want to lose him. Believe me, he will cheat with or without your permission. Think about wheather you want to wait to go through that pain or cut your loses and get out now. Show him you are not the fool he thought you were. You have been dupped don't entertain doing this, you devalue yourself as he has done and your self esteem will nosedive.

Get out now love is not enough he does not love you the way you love him. He finds you useful but that seems to be it. No man who loves and respects his wife wants to share her. That's what he is doing, asking you to pass your self around while he cheats. What an insult!!
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Catherine602 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 3,575	Re: Husband wants permission to sleep with other women, says I can sleep with other m What he wants is to have a woman at home as an assured sex partner cook, maid and emotional support and to love him while he trolls for other women. His little plan is the dream of every male on the planet. . What he wants is male type sex and this will not appeal to you so he is not too worried tyat he will lose his convienient house frau and he is certain you will not want to cheat on him. If you did it probably would not concern him. He really does not sound like marriage material. Has he cheated in all of his other relationships? He is quite clever, he wants to avoid the expense of divorce and seems to be warning you that he will cheat. What better way to avoid the financial risk of divorce by telling you his plans. I think he is sure that you love him and are too weak or dependant financially to say no and let him know that when he wants someone else he will not have you. If you can not tell him that, you are in for a rough time. He had this planned, he knew he felt this way but hid it till he had you conered . Sounds like a deceptive user. The fact that you did not react by calling him on knowing this was his agenda before marriage and lying about his commitment to you in marriage. A woman with self respect would would have said she needed to reconsider staying married to a man who wants to cheat. Dont buy his stupid explanation he is insulting your intelligence with that explanation. You sound as if you will agree to this because you don't want to lose him. Believe me, he will cheat with or without your permission. Think about wheather you want to wait to go through that pain or cut your loses and get out now. Show him you are not the fool he thought you were. You have been dupped don't entertain doing this, you devalue yourself as he has done and your self esteem will nosedive. Get out now love is not enough he does not love you the way you love him. He finds you useful but that seems to be it. No man who loves and respects his wife wants to share her. That's what he is doing, asking you to pass your self around while he cheats. What an insult!! Posted via Mobile Device Last edited by Catherine602; 05-22-2011 at 07:51 PM.