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Old 05-22-2011, 07:47 PM   #7 (permalink)
Catherine602
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Originally Posted by floridagirl View Post
this is not what he wants. i wrote it out in my post that he says a 'continuous relationship with one other person is not allowed.' in other words, i can't have a 'boyfriend' and he can't have a 'girlfriend.' only sex with different people each time.
I can't believe you are actually expelling what he wants like it is normal and you are considering this. Why do you entertain being used ask your self. How is your self esteem- have you had a problem with you self image? Are you fearful that you will not find another man who will cherish you. Have you been emotionally abused at any time in your life or treated badly by men?

If you think that then you will stay with this deceptive loser and it will become a self- fulfilling prophecy. If you value your self you would not be explaining his plan you would have told him what's what. Have some repect and faith in yourself as a woman. In other words Woman Up and stop letting a man define you. Decide your value, draw a line in the sand, inform any man you are involved with and if they cross it knowingly let them feel the consequences. Dont allow this husband of your to degrad you you will deeply regret it.
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