Originally Posted by Mom6547
I missed the part where leaving their partner in the dark was a necessary component. I cannot remember which person said it, but SOMEONE clearly stated that they TELL their wife what it is about.
Full disclosure is certainly not interwoven as part of the process. Someone clearly stated? I think it would be great if it was part of the process and this idea that women do not know what they want was erased entirely. I think you're purposely and unknowingly misleading yourself.