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VLR · 05-23-2011, 06:23 PM

You may consider offering your husband conditions under which you are willing to stay. Perhaps give him one last chance to step up, but only if he does the things you need immediately. If he doesn't care enough to give it a serious try - it's hard to argue with you. Even if he does the right things do you need a break to maintain your sanity? If so, perhaps leave and tell him what you'd need to see happen in order to return.

05-23-2011, 06:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
VLR Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 100	Re: Question about counseling You may consider offering your husband conditions under which you are willing to stay. Perhaps give him one last chance to step up, but only if he does the things you need immediately. If he doesn't care enough to give it a serious try - it's hard to argue with you. Even if he does the right things do you need a break to maintain your sanity? If so, perhaps leave and tell him what you'd need to see happen in order to return.