Originally Posted by lady :0
A piece of him...we already have a son together...and when i thought i was pregnant it made me feel happy that my mind wont be wrapped around our marriage and focused on our children who are important...thanks for nothing...
It is very unwise to use a baby to satisfy a need in yourself. If you want to have something to focus on, perhaps a better choice would be taking a class, starting or restarting a hobby, engaging in an exercise program, volunteer work. All of these can distract and enrich you.
A baby is a human being who should be brought in this world primarily for HIS or HER benefit. Not yours. A broken home is not the ideal place to bring in a new child. You will make the very best of it for the sake of your existing son. You have no choice. And he will be fine. But it would be selfish to add a new baby to this to satisfy you.