Originally Posted by pilotguy
Fair enough - but i can say without a doubt that if she told me of a simple act that could make her happy and secure I would do it for her without hesitation. Is that not a great reason to be in a relationship? Mutual satifaction and knowing what it takes to make the other feel respected and loved?
She loves our sex. As mentioned before I don't use her as a cum dumpster - I am very attentive to her body and always let her orgasm first.
back off of always being the best lover and try to be selfish about it once in awhile.
Bang her fast and hard and then roll over and say WOW your so hot and I came so fast I love you dear. after a few of thoes she will probley say how about some long slow sex like you use to do and then say ya know I feel kinda used always doing for you and you not doing for me. you got to give to get baby I don't mind doing for you but its seeems lopsided and thats a real turn off. tell her you like the same stuff as her. long slow foreplay with a great climax at the end.
I'll tell you what I'll do for you if you do for me.but I get to get mine first and then I'll rock your world.