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Old 05-26-2011, 09:55 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Thanks MEM for your insight, very helpful for me being the hotter one. It just sucks. I am a loving, affectionate, playful person and I have to shut it down. My only fear, which probably a lot us hot spouses have, is that she will just love it and not respond at all. It just sucks, I want to be myself but instead I have to shove it all down and become more aloof. Why does as this have to be so complicated. I just want to love my wife and have her love me back.
I could have wrote this! I am with you 100%, extremely frustrating. Love is the root of the relationship and having to shut down the expressions of love just to keep it alive for the cold one.

Could this be the opposites attract (hot/cold) and we are just on the extremes of the temps?
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