The best part of counseling is that you can be open and honest without the fear of rejection or being lied to. It gives you a chance to look inside of yourself. For all you know, this could have stemmed from something in the past...or you may find that you're not being unreasonable. I found that it really helped me out a lot...and even though my relationship at the time ended up being something I didn't want to save (after a lot of insight on my situation), my current relationship with turned into marriage has been incredible because not only did I understand myself a lot better, but I also knew what to look for in a new person, and what to NOT accept from the start. Therefore, I didn't have to try to "make a man", I actually knew how to find one from the start....thus, not having to find the need to change him. It's beautiful!
Good luck to you. I really hope things work out in your marriage, but if they don't, I hope you'll love yourself enough to make the right decision for you.
MrsLV.
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