| | Re: Big situational change...advice please !!! Ladies !
Ronin aren’t you the guy that cans a woman at the first sign of trouble? For many of us it just isn’t that easy. There maybe kiddies involved and leaving entails not seeing them whenever we want and being a part time dad, not what we signed up for. There’s finances involved most especially in the family home and pensions so there’s likely to be a massive financial loss if the marriage fails. And of course there’s that love for the woman. So many of us don’t run at the first signs of trouble and there are many reasons why we don’t. But that’s not to say we like being betrayed any more than anyone else does.
But the 180 is certainly no way to romance a woman or to manipulate her to return and in that Frenchman is wrong if that’s what he’s trying to do.
The 180 is a way to get on with your life, work on self-improvement and remove yourself from the dysfunctional dynamics with your wife. To let her get on with her life and make up her own mind if she wants in our out of her marriage. Only if she decides her H is her Plan A should Frenchman then enter into a reconciliation program with her.