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Indy Nial · 05-29-2011, 11:22 AM

The fact that you are talking about the 180 and reconciliation means you have totally missed the point of the 180.

I think this advice is way off and potentially destructive to anyone new to infidelity.

The 180 is all about getting yourself back to normality and redefining who you are. It is not meant to "get" the other person back, it is meant to get YOU back.

Any relationship that lasts has to have a solid foundation and if you are doing the work for them or helping to open doors then you are just asking for trouble. You don't even know if this has worked for your own relationship, come back in 10 years and then say this worked for you.

05-29-2011, 11:22 AM	#10 (permalink)
Indy Nial Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: UK Posts: 180	Re: The 180 - Why I don't believe in it as written The fact that you are talking about the 180 and reconciliation means you have totally missed the point of the 180. I think this advice is way off and potentially destructive to anyone new to infidelity. The 180 is all about getting yourself back to normality and redefining who you are. It is not meant to "get" the other person back, it is meant to get YOU back. Any relationship that lasts has to have a solid foundation and if you are doing the work for them or helping to open doors then you are just asking for trouble. You don't even know if this has worked for your own relationship, come back in 10 years and then say this worked for you.