CLRHAR

I have been fighting for my marriage now for over a year. Physically separated now for 4 months from my home and children. I am pouring everything I can into saving my marriage. You get one chance at this life, one chance at having a happy family and I am hell-bent on reversing this living nightmare back to what was once the happiest point in our lives together. I just feel sometimes as if I am the only one fighting for our lives together. Does anyone have any advise to getting your wife on board to at-least give some effort. We were once best friends, laughed and lived life to the fullest. It is like living a nightmare now with the isolation I feel from her now. This by far is the most patience challenging moment in my entire life. I keep thinking that she will eventually realize that life is such a fragile journey we take together and that we both need to look at this moment together to learn and grow from to what will eventually be a very happy ending which will be keeping our family together and thriving on life together not apart.