I guess I'm in a different boat. My husband is the one pushing for a seperation and divorce. I have agreed to the trial seperation but after I faught really hard to convince him otherwise. As the person who doesn't want this it is really hard to see things from the other person's perspective. I just don't understand why and that drives me nuts. Plus a small part of me is being spiteful...he's making me miserable so why not make him miserable too by denying him what he wants. Guess that isn't the way a marriage works.
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