PBear

That's a tough one... If nothing else, I guess a really good answer to the question of "Why them and not me?" might be a good starting point for the discussion.

There is things that my current GF has done in the past, and says she enjoyed even if it wasn't a regular item on her menu. Hasn't happened with us yet; she claims to be concerned about a large peg in a small hole or something... And I respect that (and am flattered at the same time), but... We'll see how things go.

I could see if there was things she did in the past but didn't enjoy. But that excuse wears thin if there was multiple partners who got that opportunity. What does she say when you ask her?

C