| | Re: Today is the saddest day of my life. My husband told me that he doesn't love me..
Cheating is clearly hurtful. I do not feel responsible for my husband's infidelity and deceit.
His response to our marital problems and disappoinments was to seek another woman who was more than willing to give him attention that he felt he didn't get from me.
But he did have options other than pure betrayal.
He does admit NOW that he should have chosen other "options."
Don't act on an impulse. Just think about how many people are indirectly involved besides your spouse: your children, your family, your co-workers, your parents, your in-laws etc....
The ripple effect of adultery is mind boggling.
Talk directly and honesty with your spouse about what needs are not being met.
Suggest going to see a Marriage Counselor.
Ask for a separation or divorce.
If I can help just one other person (male or female) from causing pain to their spouse, I will be happy.