Originally Posted by Saffron
I think a huge part of my progession was how my DS responded to me and the situation. The fog lifted for him when I first said I wanted a divorce within 12 hours of discovery. He talked me into doing nothing until we talked to a MC.
I am telling you...this is the ONLY way!!!!!!!!!!!! Over and over again ...most of the reconciliation stories I hear about are when the BS stands their ground immediately and says "I'm not going to deal with this BS."
The longer Limbo lasts, the worse chances are for reconciliation.