Originally Posted by frustr8dhubby
One of the threads in the sex forum got me to thinking. What is seduction to you?
I have never been the most romantic type with words, etc but I do try to be flirty, playful, what have you. But that is usually met with disdain or a laugh off.
As an example. We have been doing P90 together lately and of course my comment is "Hey the kids are at school and I am home today, great day for naked P90!" Which is met with something like "Yeah so you can see my floppy t*ts, etc". Now obviously naked P90 isn't really practical but any time I try to play with her like that her comments are negative. Not mean, just almost like she intentionally tries to kill the thought.
She doesn't like frank dirty talk so I can't sext with her. So where do I draw the line? How can I tease her mind a little without her being so negative about it?
I think suggesting naked p90 is flirty...kind of like when i would suggest to my husband that we play naked wii sports
or play naked pool...naked guitar hero...anything naked
but her idea of flirty might be more conservative. maybe send her a text telling her that you miss her soft skin or you love her sweet scent...erotic but not filthy.