| | Re: not attracted to my husband
I have no idea what to say. I went from normal/skinny when we met to muscular and V shaped today. At one time she indicated that she liked guys that looked like that, and though I didn't pursue weight lifting in order to appease her, I did pursue weight lifting. Apparently, attraction has little to do with how one looks, and more to do with how one's spouse perceives them outside of looks. Not that looks don't play some factor, but it seems to be mental more than anything else.
Most other women I find are happy to take up the slack on flirting with me though, so it's not a total wash.