Re: lost
Well think of this. He is verbally abusive and feels in control of you and your re relationship. Of course he doesn't want things to change.
But you really can't and shouldn't live your life depressed. You need and deserve to be happy. If he is unwilling to try then maybe divorce is a better option.
SOme how I sense you want to save your marriage. If that is the case then tell him concouncilling or divorce because it is going to end up one way or another. Plus with the way he sounds from your posts chances are the courts would make him go to a violence no more councilor and or parenting classes.
Let me also ask you this has he ever threatened to hurt you, himself, the kids or a pet?
draconis
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