I am not that far out of DDay but so far I think there was another stage in it for me before anger: immense sadness. What DS had done sunk in and the shock/denial stage lasted all of about 10 seconds. Then I felt so empty inside, I cried and cried and cried. That lasted a few days. Then I moved onto the anger stage (and limbo) where I am now. I don't know how long that will last
