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turnera · 06-04-2011, 10:41 PM

Abusive means what he's starting to do. YOU are pulling away from him and he doesn't like it. He's going to NOT like it even more when he finds out you filed. HE has to be in control. You're messing that up for him. He's going to use whatever used to work for him, to get you back to where he had control.

06-04-2011, 10:41 PM	#58 (permalink)
turnera Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,812	Re: Men: Will you please translate this for me? Abusive means what he's starting to do. YOU are pulling away from him and he doesn't like it. He's going to NOT like it even more when he finds out you filed. HE has to be in control. You're messing that up for him. He's going to use whatever used to work for him, to get you back to where he had control.