| | Re: How do you get past lying?
Your H has deceived you and lied to you. Your feelings/emotions associated with that are absolutely normal. And I’d say your gut feeling about his daughter stirring the sh!te before your move is absolutely spot on.
Thing is what are you going to do about it all? Can you stay with an H who lies to you and deceives you? Can you stay in a marriage where being truthful with you is not valued by your H? I couldn’t and separated from my wife of near 40 years. I’m 62 and I’ve not regretted it once in 18 months.