Originally Posted by Myopia1964
You must be extremely young and/or immature.
Workplaces are crawling with men like this who prey on your naivete. Take it from some of us women who've been around the block a few times...when a man tells you "my wife just doesn't understand me," and looks like a downtrodden little boy take note...this is the oldest line in the book sweetie!!! Don't fall for it. This is the opening he will use to gain your sympathy and convince you that you really aren't doing anything wrong by getting involved with him...after all, he's in SUCH an unsatisfying relationship and his wife is SUCH a beotch!
Yada, yada, yada. Truth is, he probably is perfectly happy at home, especially if he has a wife who overlooks or is ignorant of his indiscretions. When you grow up a little, you'll realize that this is a distinct type of predator and they're everywhere.
If you fall for this, you will eventually realize that you've been had. He has probably pulled this act with every "young thing" that has passed through the office. Please spare yourself the pain and humiliation when you wake up someday and discover that you've been used and thrown over for the next piece of a** that he meets in the lunchroom. You are allowing your ego to convince you that he thinks your special...he doesn't. And you're not.
My aunt fell for this crap when she was a single mom in her forties, so we can be naive and immature at any age.
S.T, you already know what most of us think. I hope that you are strong enough to walk away and focus on your marriage.