PBear

What's your question? You can only make a marriage work if both people are willing to work at it. And everyone has their own deal breakers that they're not willing to compromise. If I was married to someone who didn't meet my needs (I.e. Deal breaking issues) in a number of different areas, and wasn't willing to talk or work on those issues, I would have no choice but to leave. That's why they're called deal breaking issues. The're not nice to have, they're must have.

Of course, if someone came to me with a list of 200 items that they were unhappy with about me, I'd probably laugh at them.

I'm assuming you don't have kids, based on a couple of your points? If so, and you're truly that unhappy, then start making plans to leave. You're fighting about money, religion, kids, sex, and culture. I think that's all the major things you can fight about...

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