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Originally Posted by turnera  I disagree. It is a hidden agenda of lack of compassion. Needs to be addressed. |
Surely not a lack of compassion “a strong feeling of sympathy and sadness for the suffering or bad luck of others and a wish to help them”???
Reckon it is a hidden agenda though and sounds more like passive aggression. Symptoms/signs are: (from
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pas...havior/AN01563).
Resentment and opposition to the demands of others
Complaining about feeling underappreciated or cheated
Procrastination
Stubbornness
Inefficiency
Memory lapses
Sullenness
Irritability
Cynical or hostile attitude
Resentment and opposition to the demands of others and Inefficiency:
This entails taking on “jobs” but deliberately doing them inefficiently/badly, for example shopping for specific items. And all the while they smile at you as though nothing’s wrong! I hope it isn’t that for Dan, it’s truly dark and horrible stuff.
If it is PA it sure does need to be addressed.
Bob
