Originally Posted by turnera
I disagree. It is a hidden agenda of lack of compassion. Needs to be addressed.
Surely not a lack of compassion “a strong feeling of sympathy and sadness for the suffering or bad luck of others and a wish to help them”???
Reckon it is a hidden agenda though and sounds more like passive aggression. Symptoms/signs are: (from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pas...havior/AN01563
Resentment and opposition to the demands of others
Complaining about feeling underappreciated or cheated
Cynical or hostile attitude
Resentment and opposition to the demands of others and Inefficiency:
This entails taking on “jobs” but deliberately doing them inefficiently/badly, for example shopping for specific items. And all the while they smile at you as though nothing’s wrong! I hope it isn’t that for Dan, it’s truly dark and horrible stuff.
If it is PA it sure does need to be addressed.