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Originally Posted by magnoliagal  I think "give her time" means she wants out but not really. Not because she loves you but because at the moment she's still in the fog and isn't ready for the loss of her life. She clinging to the notion of cake eating. Why oh why can't she have her friends and her single life and you just wait for her while she gets it out of her system. It's the reason you can't be a nice guy right now because the minute you do she gets the message that all is good.
She must be exhausted right now balancing up there on that fence. |
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Originally Posted by magnoliagal This isn't about you. It's like a drug. You can get hooked on a drug in 3 months. It's the high for her. It isn't about turning away from you it's about turning towards that rush.
Husband/kids = mundane life vs friends/job = excitement. Lets face it real life is boring sometimes. That doesn't mean you step out and act rediculous but that's exactly what many people do. Sad really. |
You are so right on all accounts.
I get that very impression.
