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draconis · 12-31-2007, 03:32 PM

I agree that this is a verbally abusive relationship. Money should not be a reason to stay with him. You could move to a part of the country that requires less money to live. You already work, and all the assets he has is community property so in a divorce you'd get half or more of it plus child support for two children which would be about 25-30% of his gross pay.

If you stay with him then you need to do more for yourself, If you leave him chances are you will notice all the wounderful things about yourself again.

Please, don't feel trapped.

draconis

12-31-2007, 03:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,501	Re: Pregnant and feel trapped... I agree that this is a verbally abusive relationship. Money should not be a reason to stay with him. You could move to a part of the country that requires less money to live. You already work, and all the assets he has is community property so in a divorce you'd get half or more of it plus child support for two children which would be about 25-30% of his gross pay. If you stay with him then you need to do more for yourself, If you leave him chances are you will notice all the wounderful things about yourself again. Please, don't feel trapped. draconis